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I appreciate you sharing how caring for yourself allows you to care for yourself as too simplistic. While I have believed this, and sometimes still do, something about it feels more linear than relational. I also love this ritual whether it's for boundaries, avoidance, or whatever :)

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Love what cleaning a shared / public space brings up for our fragile egos and ideas of what kind of labor we should do. I am dealing with this at my restaurant. Every time I clean the toilet I wonder why I don’t pay someone else to do it.

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